The world is a complex place and most significant decisions aren’t truly either/or, it’s usually a lot more nuanced than that. However that makes it complex to explain, hard to report on. The media prefer the simplicity of a straight choice and we tend to get caught up in these arbitrary black or white choices.
We are faced with many choices daily. For many of these there are no facts to determine the best course of action, or they are of little consequence. For such choices it’s good to simply trust your ‘gut’ instinct. This is your sub-conscious reaction and may be based on all sorts of reasoning that happens outside of our rational consciousness.
It can be hard to tap into these instincts sometimes. If we find ourselves stuck my family has created a useful process for tuning into our ‘gut’. We simply flip a coin, roll dice, or draw straws. It isn’t the result of the coin toss that is interesting but the reaction to it. If you find yourself asking for the best of three you know what your instinct is saying to you.
The danger comes when you roll the dice and are bound by the result, regardless of your gut feel. That would indeed be stupid.
Women think I’m tasty, but they’re always tryin’ to waste me
And make me burn the candle right down,
But baby, baby, I don’t need no jewels in my crown.
‘Cause all you women is low down gamblers,
Cheatin’ like I don’t know how,
But baby, baby, there’s fever in the funk house now.
This low down bitchin’ got my poor feet a itchin’,
You know you know the duece is still wild.
Baby, I can’t stay, you got to roll me
And call me the tumblin’ dice.